“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness the astonishing light of your own being.”  —Hafiz

Here’s the thing: Whether you are in a partnership or not, no matter what kind of body you inhabit, or who you like to have sex with, you deserve to feel vibrant, sexy, and alive. You deserve to have total sovereignty over your body and how you share it. You deserve to master the way your body works, how it feels, and how to communicate that to a partner.
 
This kind of coaching is for you if one or more of these is true:
• You have trouble getting out of your head and being present during sex
• You struggle with body image and self-esteem
• You lack confidence and feel shame about your sexuality
• You've survived sexual or relational trauma and now it's time to thrive
• You find yourself wondering if your current experience of sex and intimacy is all there is

When you invite me into your life, we are in this together. I hold you with love and compassion while gently and persistently drawing out that which serves to hold you back from the free expression of your essential sensual nature.

Packages start at $3300

“But let there be spaces in your togetherness and let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another but make not a bond of love: let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.” —Khalil Gibran

Each couple comes with a specific situation and set of circumstances. My approach is customized to your needs, hopes, and dreams. Together we will identify what is at the root of your struggles and design a path forward. 

This kind of coaching is for you if one or more of these is true:
• You used to have a rocking sex life but have lost your mojo
• You have never been truly satisfied with your sexual connection
• You are reintroducing healthy sexuality after the trauma of betrayal
• You have physical conditions that make sex challenging
• You are working with a couples therapist and want to include sexuality in your process

Most of us imagine love and romance to look a certain way: rainbows, unicorns, lazy sunday mornings, spontaneous sex, and mutual mind-blowing orgasms. But the truth is, it seldom really plays out that way. What makes a perfect partnership outside the bedroom doesn’t necessarily translate between the sheets.

There are three distinct kinds of intimacy: physical, emotional, and energetic. A thriving partnership weaves all three into the fabric of the relationship. Cultivating a relational climate that nurtures each individual partner’s identity and expression is essential to sustaining passion and desire. Through a multi-disciplined methodology that combines depth psychology, zen buddhism, co-active coaching, and ancient tantric rituals and practices, it is possible to reinvent the way a couple experience each other and their connection.

Packages start at $3300