“Sometimes I get real lonely sleeping with you.”
Haruki Murakami, A Wild Sheep Chase
Every couple has something about their sex life that they’d like to change. Some know exactly what they are struggling with. For some it’s a vague sense that there could be more. We are conditioned to believe that sex is something we don’t talk about. And with pornography as the de facto sex education, we are marginally informed about our own bodies and each others, and how to come together in a way that is deeply nourishing for both partners.
Radical Intimacy breaks it all down in a six-week journey into the nature of intimacy, our bodies as instruments of pleasure and sensation, the art of creating safety and cultivating arousal, and the magical superpower that will catapult you into a whole new stratosphere of shared ecstasy and connection.
Fully self-guided, you can work your way through the program at your own pace, in the privacy of your home, over and over again as needed and desired.
Six Modules in Six Weeks:
We long for a certain experience of sex and relationship but can’t necessarily imagine how to get there. In this module we will deconstruct the three kinds of intimacy and look at how they intersect with the three levels of intimacy. We will explore what it means to create safety, cultivate trust, and to give and receive consent. This first module will help you to set a foundation for intimacy with each other by showing you how to be more intimate with yourselves.
What we commonly refer to as sexual energy is actually creative life force, also known as qi or shakti. Mastering this energy means we are able to increase our capacity to hold a charge. In this module, we will explore the nature of this energy and how it manifests in the body. Through a series of guided exercises and practices, you will learn to cultivate, manage, and manipulate arousal and sensation.
We are conditioned to believe that an emotional connection is a necessary ingredient of great sex, especially for women. In this context, energy is often misunderstood to be emotion, but the two are not one and the same. In this module we will discuss the nature of emotion, how to handle it, draw distinctions that will serve as the foundation of emotional independence, authenticity, and ultimately availability.
The Whole Woman
Women’s sexuality in all it’s brilliance and complexity is perhaps the most misunderstood part of the whole equation. With pornography as the de facto sex education in this country, both women and men have a very narrow and often skewed view of a woman’s body and how it responds to sexual stimulus. This module is part anatomy lesson and part tactical guide to creating an unprecedented level of soul-shaking pleasure.
The WHole Man
The myth is that men are simple and easy to please. While there may be some truth to this, there are many opportunities to stretch into new territory where arousal and pleasure are concerned. In this module, we will explore the fullness of the male instrument of pleasure and sensation, including external and internal stimulation of the prostate gland, also known as the male G-spot, what to do with his testicles, and how to gain more control over ejaculation.
Synthesizing radical intimacy is both an art and a a science. In this module, we will lean into the experiential learning from the previous five weeks and review our journey through the lens of embodiment and sustainability. Through careful orchestration of all the parts of intimacy—physical, emotional, and energetic, with self, another, and with the universe—you will create a personal plan with tools to execute it.
WHAT YOU GET:
HOW YOU WILL FEEL:
Confident in Your Ability
Comfortable in Your Skin
Sexy, Vibrant, and Alive
Seen and Appreciated
Renewed Hope in the Future
Zoë Kors is a sought-after thought leader in the world of sexuality. She is a sex and intimacy coach and works with women and couples to embrace and embody sexuality as a natural form of self-expression.
Zoë is the former Senior Editor and Creative Director of LA Yoga Magazine and Origin Magazine. She is contributor to Elephant Journal, MindBodyGreen, Fabletics and Brentwood Home. Her article, 6 Ways to Have Radically Intimate Sex, quickly went viral and is currently at over 2 million views and over 100K Facebook shares.
She is a certified Co-Active Coach with the prestigious Coaches Training Institute in San Rafael, CA. Zoë is initiated in the Sri Vidya tantra lineage. Her work reflects her extensive study of Tantra, Zen Buddhism, Meditation, Yoga, Breathwork, and other Eastern disciplines, which she blends with more process-oriented modalities of Western psychotherapy and Co-Active Coaching.
A native New Yorker, so is now based in Los Angeles. She lives with her son, dog, and fiancé.
RADICAL INTIMACY IS FOR YOU IF:
One or both of you are…
Craving more sex
Longing for more intimacy
No longer interested in sex
Feel unsatisfied and frustrated
Want to take your relationship to the next level
Or if you…
Have been together for a long time and want to reignite passion
Have always lacked chemistry in the bedroom
Are in a new relationship and want to start out strong
Are looking for an alternative to therapy
“Being happily married for a couple handfuls of years, we sought Zoë’s expertise to guide us in advancing our intimacy, solving some problem areas, and smoothing out female pelvic floor pain. Zoë thoroughly zoomed in on our lives as a couple and as individuals, truly personalizing her coaching to us and bringing her deep and detailed expertise to the conversations. We implicitly trust her and know we have a partner who’s rooting for us to succeed in all areas of individual and combined intimacy. We are happy to say that while our journey continues to evolve, we have overcome so much thanks to her knowledge, her intuition, and her passion for her work.”
Ali & Bryan F.
Next Session Winter 2020